Overcoming overwhelm, finding rest in Jesus. Get guidance and encouragement in my weekly newsletter and printable resources. I’m a wife and mom of five, with kids ages toddler to teenager—created in the image of God, made whole in Jesus.
"I'm perfect," she said. 👀
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Hi Reader, A few nights ago, sitting around the dinner table, someone made the light-hearted comment, "Nobody's perfect." My 7-year-old daughter, who doesn't speak a lick of sarcasm, dead-panned, "I am." The rest of us chuckled, because, well, that's funny right? But she continued to look dead serious. We confirmed, "Niki, you're really perfect?" She didn't hesitate but nodded assertively. We didn't correct her. Because who's to say she isn't? She's already battled a lot in her short life that would indicate she's "less than." So for her to shrug that off and be 100% confident that she's exactly who God made her to be...she's onto something. I've found it more helpful, rather than thinking in terms of "perfection," to consider how we are becoming more complete or whole as we mature as human beings and as Jesus' followers. Niki is well on her way. However we frame it, may we all live in that innocent confidence in Christ's limitless love. Prayerful reflection:
From the ArchivesI've written some things over the years that you might find helpful and encouraging this month: The Art of a Restful Christmas: 10 Tips for Reducing Holiday Stress 15+ Christian Christmas Tradition Ideas Your Family Will Love Thanks for being here. Enjoy!
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Overcoming overwhelm, finding rest in Jesus. Get guidance and encouragement in my weekly newsletter and printable resources. I’m a wife and mom of five, with kids ages toddler to teenager—created in the image of God, made whole in Jesus.
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