👐 Holding on with open hands


Hi Reader,

I dropped my 3-year-old off at his first day of preschool last week.

I prepared myself for some clinging to my leg and tears. Or at least a little resistance.

Instead, he hardly looked back. I was the one with tears.

I was reminded yet again how I hold on to my kiddos with an "open hand" posture as they grow and mature.

I love them. I guide them. But I can't grasp them (well at least not figuratively; I still hold pretty tight when we cross the street).

Open-handedness is not just a posture I must take with my kids. I also do well to hold gently onto most of my desires and expectations, as desperately as I may want to cling to them.

Maybe this is why an open-handed prayer posture is so meaningful as well. By physically opening my hands I can better align my spirit and my will with God's.

I encourage you to try it, engaging your body and soul...

Reflection questions:

What are some things in your life you're grasping onto right now that you need to let go of? Relationships? Possessions? Desires? Hopes?

Prayer:

God, we open our hands and release to you that which was never ours to begin with. May we steward what you entrust to us yet always recognize that which is yours.

Updates and Announcements

Speaking of letting things go, I kind of let this newsletter go for a minute over the summer.

Now that things are a little more consistent in my schedule, I hope to resume these weekly touchpoints. Each week I'll send a little note of encouragement as well as resources I hope you find helpful.

Since there are many new people who signed up over the last few months, I wanted you to know that one of my most popular resources is an eCourse called Choose Rest.

If you'd like to prioritize self-care but with a Godly perspective, this course is for you! It includes videos (or audio if you prefer), downloadable slides, and a workbook--all of which you can access at your own pace.

Check out what hundreds of my students have loved right here: https://www.ginampoirier.com/chooserest

May you live well, rest well, all with open hands this week.

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Peace, Patience, Purpose

Overcoming overwhelm, finding rest in Jesus. Get guidance and encouragement in my weekly newsletter and printable resources. I’m a wife and mom of five, with kids ages toddler to teenager—created in the image of God, made whole in Jesus.

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